Walking up and having thoughts in my head, not really sure what they are but I know I want to write about my childhood. Yet I can’t pull myself out of bed. I don’t want to get up and remember. It feels so hard. It feels so challenging. Yet I can’t shake this pressure, like so many memoiries trying to get out at once. A mob. I can’t distinquish one from the other.
I find my note book and pen. The trick is to write it all out as fast as I can as soon as I get out of bed. I don’t even go to the washroom unless it is immenent. This is what I did. I got up and let my memory flow from my mind through my pen. After
Listening to this energy within me I pull myself from my warm bed into the chilly morning. It is 2:30 in the morning. I must write. I find my note book and pen. The trick is to write it all out as fast as I can as soon as I get out of bed. I don’t even go to the washroom unless it is immenent.
This is what I did. I got up and let my memory flow from my mind through my pen. What falls out of me is one of my worst memories. The memory of my mom, two of my sisters and myself driving away from my Dad as he stands in our drive way. What was the heart breaking moment in this scene of my lfe? Well, I didn’t understand why he didn’t wave good bye to me, us. I sat in the backseat with two of my sisters. I really didn’t know what was going on but I knew my Dad looked different. He wasn’t acting the way he normally does.
I felt that I was going to the city for an adventure. I was excited. We were coming back to visit. Why would Dad find this trip different than the others? Oh the mind of a naive twelve year old. When I think back on myself I imagine me as a little girl but I was twelve. Surely I should have had more comprehension than to think this was a holiday!
“My brother came to pick us up. The car was loaded with our stuff. Mom and David in the front seat and Eleanor, Melinda and I in the back.
“We backed out of the driveway and sat on the road for a moment. which was customary when someone leaves. Whenever someone left there was a fit of waving and horn honking only this time was different. I sat in the backseat, by the window closest to my dad standing on the driveway. I wave but he just stands there. I am not even sure he was watching us. He was hunched over. I couldn’t see his face. He was looking down or away maybe? I waited for him to wave back but he didn’t. He always waved. Why not now?
“Mom yells in the front seat, waving her hands like she is holding the reins of a horse carriage, “Go! Go! Go!” David stops waving and drives away.”
Excerpt from my writing